Are you with a guy now and want to know how to make him commit? Do you feel as though your relationship is unfair and that you are the only one that is investing anything emotional into it? Would you like to give your man a push without giving him an ultimatum? If your answers to these questions were “yes” then it might make you feel better to know that you are not alone in this. There are a lot of women out there with men and they would like to make him commit as well but don’t know how. Read on for more information as to how you can do this with your man.
Busy yourself with life.
You don’t really have to work that hard to make a man commit to you. Actually, shouldn’t be working that hard at all,e specially if your man isn’t willing to work as well. One of the best things that you can do at this point is to make yourself busy. By this definition, you should be investing yourself in whatever you can to take your mind off of the impending issue. See your friends, start a new hobby, or enroll in some classes.
Don’t be so available to him.
One of the reasons that you need to keep yourself busy is so that you can’t be so available to him all of the time. One of the reasons that he hasn’t committed to you yet could be because he is taking you for granted. If you’re busy and he can’t have as much access to you as he did before then he might change his mind on the commitment issue.
Test out the waters…
If you and your guy have been dating for a while and he is still not exclusive then you should really think about your relationship. Why is he still dating other people and you’re not? You should be doing the same. At the very least, you could meet someone who does want to be with you. If not, then it might make him sing a different tune about committing when he sees you with another guy.
Bear all of this in mind when you want to make him commit to you and you might just have things go your way.