ATTRACTING SUCCESS (Part Three)
(How you can attract personal & professional prosperity)
Time Vs Effort
Let me start this penultimate part of your journey by saying the following…”Most people are under the illusion that the amount of time you have lived with a problem has something to do with the effort and time that is required to change or remove a given problem.” This has nothing to do with the law of attraction, it is an “idea” you and others have grown up with but has no BASIS IN REALITY.
With such phrases as “No pain, no gain” or “Up hill struggle” they are both metaphors for people whose underlying focused and predominate thought is one of struggle. As we have said before, if it is a struggle you want then “Your wish is my command”
I have been a life-coach and hypnotherapist and studied NLP for over 12 years and in that time I have asked smokers, phobia sufferers and people with eating disorders the same question. “Do you think the perceived severity of your problem has anything to do with the amount of time and effort it takes to remove it?”
Not surprisingly some of the clever ones click almost immediately and smile. Many unfortunately answer with a simple yes and go on to inform me of all the negative things in their life. This gives the underlying emotional fuel the frequency of the predominate thought, in this case a continued struggle will manifest.
Smokers are a great example because if I take the 80 per day man, smoking for 30 years he will have an imagined fear so large it takes almost an hour to turn it around. Most of what we worry about does not exist and of those things that should get our attention we ignore (thus causing more problems).
It is a simple matter to get your head around the fact that “Your present circumstances reflect your underlying present feelings.” As I have stated previously, the law of attraction always works in the same way. The mistake many people make is we tend to define ourselves by the current state of our lives. If you do this then by all universal laws you are dooming yourself to repeat those past thinking patterns.
You have the power at any given moment to say to yourself; “That was the old me, the new me thinks this way.” Believe me when I say the universe will hear what you have got to think and will reply according to your predominate beliefs.
“Where you are in life is not WHO you are.”
Turn that thought around
Here is a wonderful idea for you to run on a weekly basis and it will become fun. In part two I suggested a “Creation-day out” once a month. This idea can be used in conjunction with that idea…
It does not matter if its work colleagues, partners, children, relatives or friends it works just the same. Go get yourself a little notebook a small one that will fit into your pocket or bag. Find somewhere quiet and have a meeting in the privacy of your own mind with yourself.
You are going to make a list of all the people you know, people that you spend time with even if you don’t really like spending time with them. This is NOT a list of people you like this is a list of people you KNOW.
Start with home and give each person a separate page (you will need it). Now maybe people you work with then people you don’t see very often. You should now have a list of everyone who for good or bad has an influence in some way in your life. It may be that annoying brat at work, it may be your lippy teenage son, it matters not just have them on the list.
My compliments to those who have it in mind to do this and the other ideas I gave in the last two parts. What happens now is based on the law of attraction, remember your focused underlying predominate thought or feeling creates your world.
Take each person and give them space for a few moments in the privacy of you mind. They stand before you in your imagination with an open heart and mind. In this scenario you don’t ask them questions you sense their positive attributes. Remember your underlying thoughts will create what you feel so make sure they are GOOD.
Take each person and locate something about them YOU LIKE or you can APPRECIATE. It may be the softness of their voice, the dress sense they have, the love of classical/rock or jazz. Maybe you and your partner are not getting on too well at the moment. List as many POSITIVE traits or things you like about them, leave the negative sewage in the past.
Do this with even the pain-in-the-asses at work or down the local club, bar, sports centre or where ever you go. Now here is the fun part and one I particularly like. It is your goal over the next week to get everyone on that list to say “Thank-you” to you at least once. You got it yet? Using the law of attraction and this as your goal EVERY WEEK, WEEK IN WEEK OUT in one month I would like to hear how much your WORLD HAS CHANGED. How easy is that to do and yet make changes you could not dream of (since you’re too wrapped up in negative projections). It requires no real effort, no brains and since you already know them all virtually no work. Here is a tip to fill your “Thank-you” quota fast find something unique about them to compliment them on.
Over the next month you can secretly tick each time you get a thank you from anyone on the list. If you meet someone new, add them to the list and start ticking away. You are creating all around you what I like to call…
“AN ATTITUDE OF GRATTITUDE”
The power is in emotional content
By far the strongest element in the universal law of attraction is your emotional connection to a thought. It is the feeling part of the creative process be it a memory or a projection of what you want for the future. This is why in part two you have to go out and be in the house of your dreams, see hear, smell and feel what WILL BE SO.
The more real you can make it the stronger and louder your emotional universal pulsed frequency will be. As I have said before you do not have to know how the universe does what it does, all you have to supply is the thought with sufficient strength of belief.
As Albert Einstein once said; “Imagination is the preview of life’s coming attractions.” May I just add it also applies to coming negative distractions if you think that way.
You must believe you deserve success…I mean really believe and to do that you have to love and respect yourself. Believe me when I say that if you play the “Thank-you” game long enough RESPECT will be a wonderful side-effect!
You really are the solutions to your own problems.
We all understand (I hope) that we are all as much a part of nature as everything else on this planet. We may not think we deserve to be but then that’s our problem not the universes. Many people talk and play music to their plants and the results have been scientifically proven. Give the right “food” to any living organism and it will flourish. We would not consider giving poison to our plants, pets or children yet we inject negative thoughts and feeling regularly into our own psych.
Our journey through life is simply to feel good by doing this we do good, there is no need to want or need control, you already have all the control you need. Once we all begin to understand that we have no need to control anyone or anything fear is dissolved.
The final part of my look at the law of attraction asks the most important question.
“Why is war allowed to exist?”
We conclude this four-part summation with a global perspective and begin part four with the immortal words of Mother Theresa…see you there.