Simply envisioning the kind of person you want to be puts you one step closer to becoming that person. If you have no idea about what kind of life you want and what kind of change you want to make in your life, you’ll never be able to get there. At every opportunity, smile. Don’t doubt yourself. Silence self-defeating thoughts. Give your hopes more mental space than your worries. Be positive about others. Don’t make excuses for yourself. Believe that today and every day is full of potential.
1. Love Your Body: You are beautiful. You ARE. You are most radiant when you’re happy and at peace with yourself. Let your own inner beauty glow by pampering your body, caring for it, and appreciating it.
2. Love Others: The more you express admiration, respect, and appreciation towards other people, the more other people will enjoy your company and seek you out. When you are well-liked, you attract more favorable attention. Men will notice you and, because they’ve seen how warm-hearted you are, they’ll feel comfortable approaching you and starting a conversation. “Bitchy” behavior will only serve to dismay the nice guys and turn off everyone except the most inveterate players.
3. Give Men A Helping Hand: Men Hate rejection. Most men find that getting up the courage to approach a woman is nerve-racking. As a result, they will often wait until they receive some signal of interest from the woman before making an effort. So give them a helping hand! Show your interest by flirting, making eye contact, or smiling. Chat with any man who crosses your path. Being polite, friendly, and open to making new friends will make you enormously attractive and appealing to the right kind of guys.. the kind with genuine, warm and loving hearts.
4. No Excuses: We all have reasons for why we’re not seeing someone. Maybe you’re too busy, or you don’t have enough money to go out, or you don’t have the right clothes to go clubbing, or you simply can’t meet anyone, or there’s no one around that you’re interested in, or it’s not the right time in your life. You don’t need excuses. Accept that you have chosen your life as it is right now. If it’s not the life you want. You have the power to change. Empower yourself to believe in possibilities. If you feel sorry for yourself, believing that you haven’t been born with the same good looks and advantages as other women, think of self pity like ice cream. It may feel good, but it’s not good for you.
Remember to focus on one goal: to be the best person you can be. This involves reaching out in love, feeling warmly toward everyone you meet and letting yourself open full-hearted towards those you care about.